** UPDATED** Need some advice/opinions!

My man NEVER initiates sex. Like ever. We have sex a lot and he gets very into it, cuddles me after and always tells me how much he enjoyed it. I can get him off pretty easily and so I don’t THINK it’s an attraction issue but he just seriously won’t initiate it or even making out! I have to tell him I’m in the mood and want some sugar for him to get it. It’s starting to make me question if he really IS attracted to me/ wants to have sex with me and is starting to effect my confidence making me not want to initiate it. I jokingly texted him that he doesn’t seem to like sex and he responded with “😂😂😂😂 that’s hilarious!”

Thoughts? Advice?

I really want him to initiate sex and intimacy as well.

UPDATE

Talked to him today, he said he doesn’t initiate because he is either thinking about something else and sex isn’t the first thing in his mind then or doesn’t know if I’m in the mood so once I tell him I am, then he’s down. I asked him to just try to initiate more often since it makes me feel weird and question his feelings and he said that he will and yes he’s still attracted to me/ wants to be with me, wants to have sex with me and that I don’t need to worry about it.

Side note: He is in training (law enforcement) in an neighboring and has to stay there at the academy for a week (bummer!). Tonight he was able to get approved to leave and come home for a night and he surprised me by showing up at home with dinner and a movie! And yes, he did put the moves on and initiate sex. He’s pretty fantastic ❤️❤️ and I got to help him with his homework/presentation!

Thank you ladies for the help and advice!