Ehlers Danlos and second baby

Charlotte

Hello! I’m looking for some advice really I am currently pregnant with our second baby and with our first I had a 4th degree tear, I have been told that this time I can opt for a C-section due to my last birth. I have ehlers danlos which is a connective tissue disorder and thus if I do a natural birth and have another tear as bad there is a chance of nerve damage and too much scar tissue but On the other hand if I have a section the healing process can be longer etc and issues healing. the doctor said it’s completely my decision and I’ve been researching but my brain is frazzled is there anyone out there with a similar condition or been in a similar situation /have had a section that can help me understand it more? TIA! ☺️