so I've caught my husband in a few lies that were kind of big deals, nothing like cheating or anything, but they were enough to make me question him everytime he tells me something, but I found out after we were already married and had our first child so at this point we just need to work this shit out.

Well the issue I'm having is, his brother is about to have a wedding and for some reason his brother wants him in the wedding (they're not that close and my husband REALLY doesn't want to do it). So the brother and his friends are wild, like drugs and shit. One of the things I recently found out was that my husband lied to me about drug use in the past and when I asked him point blank with receipts, he denies it!! So I'm just getting anxiety already because I know he's gonna have to do his wedding stuff and I'm not gonna be around for a lot of it since I'm not in the wedding. I just have this feeling he's going to do something stupid and try to hide it! The way I am is like, ok you did something dumb be honest and we can deal with anything but if you lie to me that's the worst thing and there's no coming back from that.

He's a good man, he just has his faults, mainly lying. 🙄 anyway, he hasn't done anything wrong yet but I don't even know how to bring the subject up without starting an argument.