Is it just me??

So it just me? Tomorrow is the 4th and Saturday is my birthday and my husbands friends decided to invite themselves to our house which I didn't completely mind cause at least they are bring food and drinks but now that it's the night before I feel like I am getting bitchy and emotional and feel like I don't want anyone over. I keep telling myself at least we are having people at our community pool but I swear people always find a reason to go to my house and make things a mess and I spent all week detail cleaning my house just so this weekend I can relax. Then my husband wanted to know what I want to do Saturday for my bday and I told him we are going to eat with my family in the am and that's all I want to do. I just want to hang out with my husband and my son for my birthday and he started talking about inviting people back over to the pool. I told him no that I don't want to do that because I will be the one doing all the work of entertaining and cleaning up after a bunch of drunk people and I don't what to be doing that. I clean up enough after my DH and son! Sorry ladies I just need to vent before I go off on someone :) I seriously wish I could leave my house for the next two days at least! I think next year after my baby is born I am going to start traveling for the holidays so there is no craziness and stress!!