Best Friend problems

Jen • Baby 💙 Feb 5, 2018
My best friend is the one I called right after showing the HPT to my hubby. Three days later I've heard nothing but saw her. She "100%" doesn't want to talk about me being pregnant. 
In October she had an early miscarriage. She was devastated after trying for over a year. 
I've been supportive and she seemed to be doing better. 
I know I have to be understanding, but I am so hurt that she doesn't want to even talk to me. I feel alone - she was my person. Now I feel abandoned by her. 
Tell me what to say/do to be ok with this.