Lost my Play partner

How do I find a new play partner???

I have only had one play partner, and I decided to end things because I wanted more. I'm a little sad 1: obvi I wanted more and 2: I don't really know how to find another play partner. It was a major coincidence that I found this one.

I've always been kinky and had boyfriends who were not. They would not try things, and I would be left disappointed. Now that I've actually gotten to have BDSM/kink sex the way I want, I don't want to waste my time with someone who only wants vanilla.

However, I'm also kind of private about this and not sure I want to, say, put "into kink/BDSM" on my dating app profiles...I see guys from work on those apps! I don't want them to know! Ugh idk what to do.