What an asshole

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I told my bf when i get pregnant I'll probably be fat and he responded i hope you dont get fat after you have the baby I expect you to work out and lose that weight again i dont want yu fat... Am I wrong or was this rude

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Just gonna put this out there, but maybe you should conceive with a man who is your husband, not a childish bf.

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Wow. What a douche-bag. That's messed up. Your carrying a child. That's a beautiful thing. You won't be fat. You'll be pregnant. You'll be beautiful.

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Probably going to cop some shit for this but I'm feeling the opposite of what most people say. I don't agree with maybe how he said it, but I think it's fair that he wants you to try to lose the weight and go back to the person he's attracted to. 
I would hate it if something my caused my husband to get fat and he didn't care enough to try to lose the weight knowing I would be less physically attracted to him. 
I know it can take time and your body changes completely and some people do have troubles that result in the inability to 'get skinny again,' but I honestly think it's a fair statement. 
No matter what, if he's a decent man, he'll love you at any size, but I believe people let having kids be an excuse to stop trying to be appealing to their partners. I want to look good so I feel good. It makes me feel good knowing my husband is turned on by the way I look too. That's just me though.

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That's rude.. Your going to be carrying a child.. Your body will change, he needs to get off his high horse and be more respectful.. I'm sorry

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That. Is so damn rude. If you carry HIS child he should still love you the same no matter what happens to your body. Leave if he only wants you for your body.

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Very rude

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It was insensitive

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Childish how old is he 18 lol

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Very rude if he was serious. I could see my hubby saying this to me as a joke though & we would both laugh about it.

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Just down right rude.

What an asshole

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