So this is my first baby! I have never been bone skinny and I ended up putting some weight on before I got pregnant bc my dad was sick and ended up passing away ! I was pregnant 4 weeks later so I was already over my normal weight because of stress and eating on the run! Well everyone at work keeps asking if I'm having twins! And asking how much weight did my dr say to gain! And I tell them they didn't tell me an amount ,when I go  I always ask if I'm doing okay and they say yes ! So I have gained 23 lbs since I been pregnant and I am 22 weeks and 3 days . I don't wanna be rude to the people I work with but who are they to say anything to me? None are my friends we all just work together so there is no attachment ! And I crazy for being annoyed and furious !!!!