I need some tips and tricks!

**Warning** I do not have the best grammar in the world so I apologize for that. So me and my boyfriend really like to fight for dominant and 90% of the time he wins but I'm stubborn and I'll try to still fight he knows to make me melt into his hand before I can do anything. I want/need to know any tips or tricks that will make me win next time and have him melt in my hands (I do know if I'm quick and I kiss him he'll melt there but I want more then doing that) and I won't mind if I got any tips to pleasure him more too!