When our second son was 4 months and big brother was 4 years we decided we wanted to try again I got...

When our second son was 4 months and big brother was 4 years we decided we wanted to try again I got pregnant quickly but then lost it at 4 weeks. We decided to not try but not prevent at first but it turned into an obsession for me. I so badly wanted to be pregnant, I charted and did CM checks every day for months and each negative test made me angry, sad and confused. So we took a month off. No timing sex, no watching the calendar, no tracking. We relaxed and had fun and had a really spontaneous fun love life again. Now after 5 months since we decided to try I woke up 3 days late and nauseous. I took a digital even though I felt it would be negative. I had taken one 5 days earlier and it had been negative, I had counted the days wrong and tested too early. Now here I am getting ready to move into a new house in my childhood neighborhood near my aunt and start a new chapter and it will start with preparations for baby! Good luck ladies! When all else fails relax! It does work!