AF due today

I had mild cramping 5-6dpo and today I am 9dpo. Have been real tired the last 2 days (and I have been sleeping like a rock). Breasts are sore. No spotting or cramping to suggest AF is coming. Really hoping this is my month. I want to try and wait until 2/3 to test. I had a psychic reading done by Cheri22...she predicted a girl due/conceive/find out in January. Praying she is right and we have conceived!