How to decide to have a 4th 🤯😳

Sorry, it’s just a bit long...

Well I am currently 20 weeks and 3 days and found out yesterday we are having our third boy. We decided to try for a third to see if we will have a baby girl. Now that our third baby a boy, he said we will just have another in a couple years. 😳 what?! Lol I swore he was joking but I don’t think he is. I said and what if it’s a fourth boy. He said that will be it for us.

His biological mother had 6 boys in hopes of having a girl but didn’t. He does have three brothers who had a girl for their first child so maybe we have a chance.

I did tell him to think long and hard and talk to me when he is serious because I honestly never seen myself have more than three kids the most. We also planned to have my tubes tied after our third.

If you planned a fourth child, was it just because and you will figure it out as time goes on or was it an actual discussion, ensuring everything will be ok?