Best friend

So my best friend really under appreciates me... I do so much for her and I’ve constantly been her shoulder to cry on for a whole year by this point. And I’m made this for her because I’m picking up embroidering

And she’s like “what would I use this for”... I spent so much time on this and she doesn’t even want it.. then I told her “i feel so under appreciated” and she left me on read then asked for coffee the next morning... whenever I bring this stuff up to her she doesn’t care. What should I say to her to make her listen? Should I distance myself?