I Need Your Help Ladies

So...I Cut My Hair A Few months Ago Ill Show you A Picture..Im Trying The Whole Natural Thing Anyway So Since Its So Short I Wear Wigs 24/7 Even When i Sleep...And Its Getting Hot So Its Starting To Aggravate Me ...I Told My S/O I Wanted To Wear My Real Hair And He Said..WEAR IT...and I Said I Would But I Feel Like You Would Think Im Ugly And He Says...YOUR SELF-ESTEEM IS WAYYY TOO LOW...I Only Said That Because Before I Cut My Long Hair He Said He Didnt Like Me With Short Hair But I Wanted To try Something New ...How Can I Boost My Self-esteem..By The Way When He Said That I Wanted To Cry So Bad Cause Its A Real Sensitive Subject Fir ame And For Him to Just Say It Like That Hurt My Feelings...Please Help ..The First Picture Is When I Had Long Hair..The Second One Is When I Cut It A little The Third Time Is When I Cut It All Off