Am I a bad person?

Question

Am I a bad person for crying of frustration when someone gets pregnant? I know a girl who just had a baby 8 months ago and now having another one. I am so frustrated that I am crying. I feel like I'm a horrible human being for not being happy over that. 😣

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Don't feel bad for that... It's only natural. As long as your frustration does not affect the other person, I think it's perfectly fine to feel what you feel. I have a group of three old (very old) friends, all of us are TTC and one of us got pregnant recently. I do feel a bit frustrated when she shares pictures and details of her pregnancy but I've been trying really hard to ignore those feelings when I talk to her :( our other friend has gone really quiet on shared conversations so I'm guessing she's feeling down too... So yeah... You're not alone!!

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I can totally relate! While I’m happy for them, I’m still sad for myself every month we get another negative :/ I personally think it’s totally normal! When you want something so badly, it’s hard to see it be so easy for everyone else when it isn’t so easy for you. Don’t lose hope!

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No. I’m a newborn photographer and sometimes after the shoot I go to my car and cry

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I had a baby 13 months ago and I am pregnant again now. It is okay to feel sad if you cannot get pregnant as long as it is not being put on on the other person. To me it sounds like you are a very caring  person since you feel sad and feel like you are being a bad person because of your feelings. You should try to lift your spirit! Try not to feel like you are being bad or doing something bad because you have feelings. You are totally entitled to your feelings!! Maybe try writing them down to help ease your pain? Or try to talk to someone who is in your shoes or was before so she can understand where you are coming from. I am not going to stay “it will happen when it is meant to be” since I do not believe in it. I believe in taking charge over your life. If you haven’t tried opks, give them a chance. Maybe acupuncture will help, I have heard good things about those. Try working out, if you haven’t and see if that makes a difference. If nothing works, go to the doctor to get help. I hope you will be able to conceive like tomorrow or better yet yesterday. I am not sure if my words were any help, but I hope you won’t put yourself down for having feelings again. Best of luck

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I can relate. I had a miscarriage in October and so many people are pregnant and we would’ve had the same due date ☹️😢

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