Is it the same thing as porn?

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DISCLAIMER: this is NOT a post to discuss whether you allow porn in a relationship. Let’s not beat that dead horse again. 
I recently downloaded twitter (which, I know, is outdated and it’s embarrassing that I didn’t have one before now 😂) and I went to my boyfriend’s account and followed him. He posts a lot of funny memes, so I was scrolling down reading some of his posts until I came across a few from when we first started dating. They were all videos and pictures of the same girl that he’d retweeted. Some were of her shaking her ass, one was of a guy messing with her tits, and another was of her completely naked with only a gun covering her torso and a stormtrooper helmet on and it  said something along the lines of ‘the only stormtrooper you’ll need’. 
Listen, I literally could not give two fucks if he watches porn but I think this is too far and not the same thing. He argues that it’s just like porn. 
Question: is it the same thing as porn? Why or why not?

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That’s soft core porn for sure. 
Even if it weren’t, your bf was publicly posting sexual things while he was dating you. That’s is humiliating. Even if he weren’t dating you at the time, it would show that he has no class. That would be an absolute dealbreaker for me. Boy bye.

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I consider it porn. And I'd want my husband to get rid of all that trash now that we're together. But that's just me.

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I would consider it softcore porn

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Ew I’d definitely think differently about any creep-ass I knew retweeting that shit. WHY the fuck do you wanna publicize the shit that gets you off?! So. Fucking. Gross. 
Yuck. That’s all I have to say.

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He argues that it's just like porn, so would he post all of the porn he has watched or enjoyed for the world to see? Social media has people being way too open, it's like nothing is meant to be private anymore. Sex is not something to be ashamed of, but considering that it is intimate, it ought to be kept private.

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I could care less if my husband looks at it, but what would bother me is the fact that he posts it on his social media. That’s an issue. I would consider it porn

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I mean I guess you could think of it that way. I don’t see the issue with it though? I’d just tell him it’s a bit embarrassing to have that for everyone to see lol. Some things can remain private and not have your name linked to it.

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It’s the same thing as porn. I don’t understand why, if you’re fine with porn, this would bother anyone.

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It’s not worse, if that’s what you’re asking.

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Its porn just. A different level. Like paying for a cam girl is porn but on a whole other level. I think what you found is like mid level. long as hes not contacting her, and just retweeting, I wouldn't be bothered. 
There is this thing about these girls who do their stuff on social media making it potentially interactive, which is what bothers me as far as what the boundaries are in my relationship. Good old fashioned porn that isnt at all interactive, doesnt bother me at all.

Is it the same thing as porn?

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