Long distance problems

We live in the same city, but our city is huge and we basically can’t see each other often. Which means that a lot of times we gotta just stick to face time and phone calls.

The problem is that before we used to call around 10pm for a goodnight call (and a sum up of the day), then he started to push this time down to 9pm, and now he just tells me that he is going to sleep after dinner (so like at 8pm) and he doesn’t want to text or bother with his phone...

I am thinking wth? I mean I get you just wanna relax, but there is a relationship you still have to look after (if he wants to as he says he does)... but yes i think it is an effort that I deserve? Bcus I do it for him, and wanna catch up at the end of the day.. what do you think?