Picking gender vs surprise 💓💙

Hey ladies,

Just wondering if those of you who have completed transfer chose the gender or left it to surprise. In a perfect scenario where you have a boy and girl with the same quality, have any of you left it the doctor to choose? Since this whole TTC journey has been so scheduled and planned, I thought it would be nice to have the doctor pick and have us not know. If we had only great boy eggs or only great girl eggs, we’d obv go with those, but just wondering if anyone’s had the same egg quality with both genders and how you chose or if you chose??