I just want to hear your experiences. How did you feel before and after? Did it hurt? What could you do and not do after the fact? Did you tell anybody? What about years later? Is it still something that bothers you? Do you regret it? Was it harder for you to get pregnant when you finally decided to you were ready? Did anything go wrong during the abortion that hospitalized you? Did you stay with your partner after ? Did you tell your partner?