really discouraged

34 weeks and my little man is still breech, I'm absolutely terrified of a c section. I've never had any kind of surgery, of course I want my baby to be safe and I'll get over my fears if I have too. They wanna try to flip him at 36 weeks with a ECV and a spinal block. I feel like I have no control and I'm really freaking out. On top of all of that i have low fluids so they don't even know if they can do the ECV procedure. I have another ultrasound next week ( I'll be 35 weeks ) to check fluids and confirm positioning. All my friends are getting the labors they want. I feel so discouraged...