Advice

Ok ladies, I need some advice...I went to the obgyn yesterday, & we discussed my irregular cycle, & options....she says my blood work shows that my hormones are fine, & that she’s almost certain that I have PCOS because im overweight. So I mentioned fertility drugs, because we’ve been trying for our 2nd baby with no luck for quite some time now. She says that if I loose 30-40 pounds over the summer then we can consider fertility drugs, but until the answer is no. Is this my only option? Should I get a second opinion? She made me feel so ginormous and ugly 😞