V-carded

Long story short - I’m a virgin, have a good guy that I like, will use proper protection and am ready, but don’t want to be known as “the girl that gave it up” obviously no one would really know, but I’m not in a relationship with him. I feel that this is a shitty stereotype for women who lose their virginity, because it’s sex and it’s no ones business, but it still scares me.