As my due date comes near im getting soo scared! My first son was very big boy and his shoulders got stuck on my pelvic which lead to a shoulder dystocia. He's fine but the situation could of be a whole lot worse. He could of very well had lasting side effects or possible death from this. I'm having another boy. I've been super great about my weight gain and even the doctor doesn't think second boy will be as big. She does worry about me having another shoulder dystocia and keeps using words like damage baby, c section, etc etc. She knows I want a to try natural birth. And she respects that even thou she has to offer the c section. Does it make me a bad mom to want to do a natural