I feel so insecure because of my vagina. I have always had guy friends mostly, and of course theres always jokes about girls with "those" types of vaginas. gross ugly ones. (( like mine apparently))) .... there has been occasions when my girls friends tell me they going to their doc etc, and she was nevous but said "well i think mines normal, i don't have those big gross, roast beef lips like some girls" again, i'm like oh yeah totally... whilst im thinking..like mine....... I seen a lot on social media men and women make fun of vaginas like mine being gross. especially with porn making guys think pretty vaginas are the standard and anything else isodd and disgusting even though a lot of them have had surgery. I am 22 I’ve looked up this stuff for years. i KNOW it's normal, and i know vaginas come in all shapes and sizes. but it's still so embarassing because having a vag like mine is so taboo these days.

Last night hubby and i were sitting on the sofa naked, and he put his hand down there, trying to finger me but he had a hard time finding my vagina hole since my labia is so big. I felt so embarrassed 😭😭😭😭 he didnt say anything, never has, he enjoys sex with me he loves me. But still i know my vagina isnt pretty and its always embarrassing for me.

does anyone under similiar circumstances have advice? im starting to dream of that vag surgury, even if there are risks... im tired of constantly worrying about it and trying to tuck them away.