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So I won’t go into too much detail but I have been recommended by my midwife to have an elective c section, please no judgment it’s not something that I have not considered for a very long time. I have a broken healing tailbone and severe anxiety. Anyway, I am feeling slightly calmer about the birth knowing i have a plan, so to speak, but I’m worried about the consultant desperately trying to change my mind, and telling me how dangerous it is etc, I have the mid wife’s support and they have been amazing, but I have a diagnosed personality disorder and stress really causes me problems. Has anyone had any issues like this? I know this is vague but I’m losing sleep over it, is it fair they try Bs convince you otherwise when my midwife has actively recommended one for me? Thank you for your help.