Breastfeeding support and encouragement

My baby boy was born on 3/4 and we have been struggling with breastfeeding for the past (almost) 4 weeks. I have large breasts and flat nipples and zero tolerance to pain in that area. I am so stubborn and determined to not give up on it no matter how much it hurts. I cry every time he latches. We tried a lactation Consultant, a nipple shield, different positions, you name it. I knew it would be hard but never imagined it to be this hard. I pray there is a light at the end of the tunnel because I so badly want to be able to do this for him. Looking for support and encouragement from other first time mamas. At what point did the pain go away for you all? 💙