SEX AFTER MARRIAGE?

I want to have sex after marriage. I'm not sure if ill make it but I like to aim high. I want my boyfriend to wait for me and I know he will. we have talked about it for a while and he REALLY DOES NOT wanna wait that long. he feels like sex is a natural thing that bring people closer together and I agree but I think it can be nice if we both wait. what are your thoughts? what should i do? I am in the middle of both ideas ...