How do you deal with someone who is hateful towards you, because they feel like they deserve to be pregnant more than you? This is a tough situation. I wish everyone who wanted to be a mom could have that opportunity. And I truly feel for women who struggle to become pregnant but that is not the case for the person in my scenario. She is able to have children but isn't at that point in her life yet. Because she is older than I am (I'm 24 and age is 30) she has said rude things about how irresponsible I am to be pregnant at 24. How do you deal with people like this? I do not think 24 is young and I am not married yet but will be soon. Am I the only one dealing with this?