So my husband and I made an agreement not to use contraceptives but we don’t like to say that we’re ttc either. I know that sounds silly but I think we’re both just scared of saying we are and being let down. So we’re just “going with a flow” lol. No one in my family knows this, however, a lot of them want us to have babies so they will give advice. The frustrating part is so many people keep telling me that it will happen within the first month. My mother said it happened for her the first try, same with my aunt. We have been “going with a flow” for about 7 months. Should I be worried or maybe focus more on trying?