Relationship Advice. *UPDATE*

The day I left my ex husband he sent me this. December 22, 2016.

We separated for nine months after that. At our final divorce hearing he poured his heart out about how he didn’t want to be finished and had so much love to give. So I then told him we can try to build a better foundation under one condition. We had to go along with the divorce. So we did.

Yesterday he seen a message from a guy I use to talk to while we were separated that asked if I had changed my number:

I didn’t message back. I simply read it and left it be. My ex husband-turned-boyfriend felt I was being disloyal and told me to not get mad when he sees me doing him. Which sounds like he is going to cheat now. What do I do ladies? Up until this point it was going great. I don’t want to give up so easily but I know I deserve better. I just don’t know how to leave. We are staying at my apartment. I am the one on the lease but I don’t know how to tell him to leave and get out.

****UPDATE****

I have five of my girlfriends coming over when he gets off work tomorrow to get his things packed and put in the hallway for him once he is off work. I would try to do it myself today but last time I tried he threw the trash can and vacuum at my head which sent me to the hospital, then convinced me I didn’t love him if I called the police on him.