Before I found out I was pregnant my husband and I decided that we didn't want to know what we were having until I gave birth and now that I am pregnant he wants to do a gender reveal!!! This is our first and his family is also upset that I don't want to find out. I DO NOT want to know what it is until i give birth. I think its so cute and surprising. I loved the idea and now I'm just upset. I know he's the daddy and its 50/50 so I guess I'll have to suck it up and do a gender reveal.