Help me please 😭 suggestions

so my bf he was molested and I don't know what to do really ,... like I kinda read into it a bit how that can affect the person, I my self was molested as a child too, but his case is worse,... sooo I'm not sure weather to keep on waiting and see if eventually he'll actccept my adoring loveing affection ??? I feel a bit like shit tbh like if I'm the one doing wrong but in all seriousness my really sweat , shyishhh , and affectionet and he I guess doesn't like it ? or it's just the affect of the past that its making him not really want it too much , I really do care about him

please help on any ideas or something or what you guys think