How did you propose the idea to your husband of being a stay at home mom? I was with my first child, I stayed home before he was even born and up until he was a little after 1. But, with the one on the way, he hasn't been totally for it, mainly cause I have a great job now.

But, he makes 6 figures with or without me.

I know we wouldn't struggle and I would not be opposed to going back after the first year.

I just know with how much he works and how much I handle our son, home, animals on top of working full time right now, I don't think I mentally can do it with another by myself.

And I just don't want to leave her after a couple months and trust her in a daycare facility.