Bf and I don’t do anything fun?

Question

How can I bring that up to him without hurting his feelings? He’s been going through a tough time at work and it’s making me feel like he’s not making me a priority. We barely have sex or go out unless it’s dinner. He’s been working 50-60 hours something so I understand but I’m just bored and neglected.  
I just want to flag out tell him that he’s boring. Lol. But I know that’s mean.

Answer

There is an age difference. I’m 25 and he is 32.

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I guess my husband's boring then because he works 6 days a week and we only go out to go eat or to his family's house real quick or church but I'm older I guess I don't know how old you are but I'm perfectly fine with being bored with my husband I stay home all day everyday by myself I'm due to have my baby any day but usually I work too

Answer

Sometimes when we’re going through tough times, we have to make ourselves a priority. I think your role right now should be supportive and understanding. Maybe you shouldn’t be a priority right now. Maybe he’s trying to get his mental health together during these stressful times. As partners, we have to know when to step back and give our loved ones that space to gather themselves. We can’t always be a priority. And I’m not saying your feelings aren’t valid. It sucks when we have to be a little uncomfortable, but we have to weigh the severity. He’s stressed with work and you aren’t getting fun nights out. It’s clear what he has to do. Give him some time and maybe plan things yourself, but something you know he’ll be able to handle. Maybe a board or card game night in with friends. It’s fun, but he’s still in the comfort of his home and can relax with a beer.

Bf and I don’t do anything fun?

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