Its fathers day (obviously) an im currently 11weeks pregnant an i didnt tell my babys father happy fathers day nor did i get him anything... should i feel bad should I have told him? He didnt tell me happy mothers day or get me anything.. this is his first child my second (my first child passed away last year at 8months ; but i still consider myself a mother) he hasnt said anything and doesnt seem bothered by it but i dont know. I dont want him to be upset...