New cycle.. New attitude?

So me and my husband have been ttc, no luck yet. I think I get myself all stressed with all the logging and the opks and the planning. AF just ended, so I'm trying to just bd a lot, and track that, but leave everything else up to fate. So here's my question, I read somewhere on a thread here that someone recommended bd'ing every other day or every 2 days regardless of time of cycle. Any suggestions?