advice on threesomes?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years now we've talked about the possibility of having a threesome a couple of times now.              I'll admit I'm a bit nervous about the whole thing but he has been nothing but respectful about it. He makes it a point to let me know I am and always will be #1 and that this would just be something we could do together and just have some fun. I am very grateful he doesn't make me feel pressured to do anything I don't want to do.                                                                        Recently I've been thinking about it a lot more and I'll admit I am more curious about what it would be like to kiss/make out with another female. But I'm just not sure how to get to the point where I'm 100% comfortable. Any advice would be much appreciated 😊

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Who’s idea was it in the first place? If it was his I wouldn’t because that’s just saying he wants some fresh pussycat but wants to stay in his relationship

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Okay, so as someone who has experience with this, you have to ask yourself how you will feel seeing him pleasure and get pleasure from someone else... if that makes you feel insecure or uncomfortable DO NOT DO IT. I thought the idea of playing with a girl for my boyfriends amusement would be fun, but I was not to keen on the idea of him fucking or sucking or getting sucked by another chick...but I did it anyway...the ENTIRE time I felt awkward, ashamed and inadequate. It caused tension in my relationship for MONTHS. There is nothing wrong with exploring these things, but your mind has to be in the right place. Morally, it just did not mesh right with me.

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When I had my first 3 sum I was nervous too, but before I introduced the male I just had fun with the female first that way it wasn’t so awkward the first time actually doing it. The male was all about me which that was something I was worried about, like what if she did better then me and so on. But once u do it it will be like, that was it? Lol

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Wait until your 100% sure . Have some rules he doesn’t have to penetrate her it can be you 2 fooling around and maybe him touching but mostly you 2?  Do ask much as what makes your comfortable.

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If you are his number one he wouldn't have asked you to have a threesome in the first place. That's my opinion.

advice on threesomes?

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