So my husband and I have recently started to try and conceive. We are very excited but are keeping it to ourselves. Well our best friends are kinda in a "anti kids" club. And everytime we hang out they say things like "isn't it great with no kids here" and "aren't YALL glad none of us have kids" and it scares me cause I feel like once I have kids they are just gonna ditch me. They are married too. But don't want kids. And we want kids now.