Orgasms and cuming

Ja

I CANT DO IT I SWEAR I CANT! My bf and I have sex all the time but I just can’t get myself to do I.T! What does he have to do? What do I have to do? I think ive orgasmed before bc if feels good when my clit is rubbed and stuff but I have no idea what the sensation is 🤷🏽‍♀️ can you all give me tips 🧐