Me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year now and I don’t know why, but I’m always nervous before we have sex. During sex I’m okay. Sometimes I feel like my vaginas broken. This is gross but like i feel like it leaks. In school I have to wipe off the seat before anyone sees. It’s so embarrassing. I’m wet all the time but before sex I go into a dry spell. And then he forces it in then I get wet. I just don’t get if I’m doing something wrong or if I literally just have a broken vagina. My boyfriend knows I get nervous and he makes sure I’m okay before he tries anything. But nothing works. We’ve tried different position. Different times of day. Long foreplay short foreplay. I’ve noticed that it easier to get wet at night but it’s not to the point it

Needs to be at for him to be able to slide in. We don’t use condoms because I’m on birth control. And recently we’ve had to resort to using lube. But I’m 16 I shouldn’t have to use lube. I just want to be able to be dripping like I usually am and not feel like an old grandma.