Is it just me or do i have a right to feel this way

This pregnancy has been a little rough on me physically and emotionally and my husband just does not make it better when I imagined being married and pregant I imagined being treated like a queen like 3am runs after I woke you up out of your sleep type of queen instead I'm treated like a burden anything I need him to do for me or that I need help with he either complains about or just doesn't do it then I'm focused on everything the baby will need and he's buying him new shoes and planning trips to New York it's like no matter how much I tell him we need to focus on the baby or I could use some help it never gets through to him he makes me not ever want to have a baby by him again so I won't ever have to need his help ever again like am I tripping is it just my hormones or do I have a right to feel this way?