Why can’t men seem to grasp the concept 😡

Question

Why can’t men seem to grasp the concept of the “fertile window” and ovulation day?!? 😡😡😡
My hubby seems to think we can have sex anytime to get pregnant since others fall pregnant by accident all the time. We get it in sometimes during the fertile window but he’s pissed me off a few times after a positive opk being too “tired” or “stressed” for sex.... Then he’ll try to have sex 2 days later like it’s a big deal and I’m like “it’s over!! You missed it!” 
Anyone else?

Answer

I don’t tell my s.o about fertile window and it’s much easier now before he used to get stressed and see it as a chore. Now I just spice it up all month round and make sure I know when the important days are 😂

Answer

Maybe the pressure is stressing him out. Try not telling him when it’s your fertile window or ovulation day. Just do something sexy and initiate sex.

Answer

Lol!!! My fiancé and I time having sex during my fertile window. He has actually even wrote it down before. He doesn't masturbate that week at all, so he knows he will want to have sex.
Some men feel pressured though with timed sex. If I were you, I would stop telling him your fertile days and just get to sucking 😂 Blowjobs always work with my fiancé. He goes from not horny to ------->

Answer

I had to explain how it all worked in order for my OH to understand otherwise he wouldnt understand the importance of the fertile window

Answer

Girl you need to tell him if he wants a child he needs to get to work! Me and my husband last month we didn’t have sex until i got a positive opk than we had sex 3 days in row.. he is ready whenever i tell him im ovulating... you need to tell him how it works!!

Answer

Waaaay too much pressure. Men can’t handle it. My man was the same. Now when I ovulate or my fertile window comes up I almost have to work it my way. If we’re coming up to it and he wants it, I usually try and post pone it a day or two til were in our window. Then on ovulation day, I flirt it the fuck up. Yesterday on ovulation day; I didn’t tell him. I made him his favourite dinner, he games online with his buddies and we cuddled and watched a movie. I offered to give him a blow job (most men won’t turn that down) and when I realized he was really into it, I hopped on. Sometimes you just need to stop making so scientific with the words “fertile week” and “ovulation window” and just have fun lol I’ve hit every ovulation now because of this.

Answer

you seem overbearing, maybe lay off of him. He can't just get a boner because you're fertile. Stop telling him that you got a positive test

Answer

I wouldn’t agree with overbearing since it seems like this is a rant 🤔 but i totally get it and agree with the other ladies, try not telling him when it’s time and just seduce him to take the pressure off

Answer

Maybe explain to him what exactly you mean. Some men just don’t get how making a baby works (besides the having sex part 😂) And maybe don’t be so strict about scheduling sex. He might just miss being spontaneous!

Answer

Same boat. It can be really annoying.

Why can’t men seem to grasp the concept 😡

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey