I hate when people tell me i don't 'look' pregnant 💔

My husband and I were beyond excited when we found out we were pregnant with our first baby boy after 5 months of trying ❤ Now I'm built little anyway, 4'11 and I was 115 lbs when I got pregnant. I got so sick that I lost 15lbs in which case I've gained back along with 2lbs more. I'm now 25 weeks along and I have a friend that's 28 weeks. She's always making comments that I don't even look pregnant and that I should see if my baby is okay. She's gained over 30lbs already so yeah shes obviously going to look bigger than I do. Is it just me or is it rude to tell a pregnant woman that they don't look pregnant and that their baby could be at risk when they themselves are overweight?

This is my belly and my boy is growing and doing perfectly 💙 I'm very proud of my belly and the weight I've gained since I can't gain weight very fast. It just hurts my feelings when people don't recognize it.