When is it safe to get excited?

My husband and I have been TCC for about 2 years. Over that time, I had an HSG, which showed my right tube to be blocked, Hubby had a couple semen analyses (first was abnormal, second was normal), and we had 1 miscarriage in August 2017 at about 6 weeks.

Since then we were not able to conceive again on our own, so I decided we were going to pursue fertility treatments. I’m not getting any younger here (just turned 37).

In February we started our IUI journey. I took clomid and did FSH injections. My ultrasound showed only 1 follicle on the right (blocked) side, so IUI was cancelled that month. When AF showed up, this girl was day drunk in the 🛀 at 10am even though I knew the odds I’d get pregnant that month were incredibly low.

So, in March we went down the IUI path again, this time with higher doses of FSH. I. My mid-cycle ultrasound I had 3 follicles on my right (blocked 🚫) side BUT one in my left! We had IUI in my birthday and I told my doctor that his gift to me would be getting me pregnant. Husband have me hell for asking another man to impregnate me 🤣

Well, it worked!!! I’m 3 weeks, 6 days today. My serum HCG was 83 at 3w,4d. I go for a repeat level on Monday. When I told my husband, he asked “when can we get excited?” I don’t know...I was so devastated after my MC, I’m afraid to get my heart broken again 💔 But, I keep looking for positive signs: IUI on my birthday; we got our positive in April (if I hadn’t had a MC, we’d be bringing a baby home this month); EDD is 12/24, which is my mom’s birthday 🤞🙏🙏🤞