My boyfriend and I have recently started dating. He's the sweetest guy I've ever met, he even accepts the fact that I have 2 little boys, He's super sweet and playful with them it warms my heart because it's rare finding someone who accepts you and you're little blessings 😭❤️

I swear this man is everything I wanted in a guy.

The problem is... he was supposed to leave to bootcamp to become a marine next month.

All of a sudden he doesn't want to go anymore because he says he wants to be with me as long as he can.

His family is pretty upset because he's not going and they kinda blame me. (They don't say that but when he told them he's not going they automatically asked 'is it because of her) and I don't really like that.

Anyways, he ended up quitting so he's jobless now and doesn't really do much all day so he wants to be with me EVERY SECOND OF THE Day. At first I didn't mind because I enjoy being around him but now it got to the point where I wake up and he wants to come over. I go to work and he visits me at work atleast 3 times a day (my boss noticed and doesn't seem to like it very much)

I get off of work around midnight and he wants me to go over to his place and I can't always do that because I have kids that are waiting for mama to lay them down at home. So when I tell him that he says 'well maybe I can go over there and stay the night) keep in mind, my dad and siblings are living with me at the moment and I'm just not comfortable with him coming over and staying the night just yet. It's my house but I have a lot of respect towards my dad and I just feel like it would make him uncomfortable. It's like a daily thing where if I cancel he gets upset and assumes I don't like him anymore. I need my space too 😩 I just don't want to hurt his feelings 😩