Worried for appointment today.

I'm worried my ob is going to tell me I'm to big and put me on a diet. I want to tell you it wouldn't hurt my feelings but it will crush me. I know she's just doing her job I love my doctor. It's my second baby. I didn't drop all the chub from our first 10 pounder baby. ( no diabetes and I ate very healthy ) I guess I'm more venting 😅. Anyone else have their ob tell them they are to big or need to lose weight? how did you handle it so I can prepare myself?