tell me if I'm in the wrong...

Ok ladies, I need some womanly guidance. This may sound strange and it might just be my hormones getting the best of me. My fiance has was build up in his ear, no ear infection just build up and has been going on about it for the last two weeks. He has seen the Dr twice and has an appointment to see an ENT in about a week. I do believe it is uncomfortable but he is going on about it like he is dying. I'm trying so hard to be sympathetic but I'm having a hard time doing so right now. I'm 25 weeks pregnant and I, myself, am feeling awful. Normal pregnancy awful, achy back, swallon feet, the whole nine yards. Every time I make mention of how im feeling he brings up his ear and how he would rather trade. Am I totally being irrational for being annoyed and frustrated?