Any advise?

Okay mom confession:

I HATE potty training. My daughter is over 2 1/2. We started potty training. Again. This is the second attempt since she’s been 2.

We are expecting baby #2 in September and hoping to have her trained by then.

Our problem is she doesn’t show signs of when she has to go. We have her in panties. And ask every 10 minutes or so if she needs to go which she says no.

I ask her to sit on her potty and try and she’ll sit there for a while and nothing happens. Then a minute later she says “uh oh pee pee in panties”. And has peed all over herself and the floor. Am I doing something wrong? She knows that she should go in the potty and not her panties but she still does. It’s been a week of the same pattern. We have had some success but mostly accidents. I just feel like I’m missing something?