Gynecologist, with mom... active

Y’all so I’ve known this boy for over a year and we recently started to date but before that we were doing lil things.

I got fingered and my panties is soaked with blood but my period is in 8 days btw it hurts when I pee.

I did do something else I’m not proud of but ion wanna talk about that 💀

Anyways I’m going to ask my mom to go to the gynecologist soon but ion wanna tell her why probably just tell her to leave the room.

Idek what to tell the doctor? “I’m starting to be active and wanted to be tested to make sure ion have anything?” ?? And idk a shot maybe for hpv IDK please help ( I trust him but I want to be 1000% sure. )