I really cannot stand it anymore

Mommy K

I'm seriously going to loose it. my MIL is just driving me crazy... I could just think about her and my mind goes into a total rage.

I cant say shes mean...and obviously she loves her new granddaughter, so I really am trying to just let it go...but everything shes doing is annoying me. my pregnancy hormones are throwing everything into overdrive with her.

I don't particularly like her...because she has been very opinionated and pushy this entire pregnancy...to name some ways....

1) talking to ALL our friends and my family about the pregnancy even though they don't like or know her...

2) threatening in taking us to court because we told her that her granddaughter would not be going over to there house (because they smoke in house) and then lied to me about smoking in the house after they "quit".

3) ignoring me opening presents at my baby shower ( except hers). and then taking my husband's cousin's on a tour of the nursery that turned into a tour of the house...and then hissed at my cat who doesn't like her anyway... ( then later tells my husband to get rid of the

cat)

4) texting my mom and called me an ungrateful bitch to my mom about smoking issue.

5) not liking our original name choice for our daughter...so she but in and made my husband so mad we changed it.

6) buying outfits and saying she has to wear them or else she'll get offended. I told her once that one of them is not my style and she then cried to my husband about it. now I just say their all fine and shut my mouth. its whatever on that one...I just wont put her in it.

7) holding things over our heads like the phrase "we've done so much for you" which we never asks for...my husband normally accepts anything that they give...and I don't because of this reason. I don't want to feel like I owe you something because you did something for me.

8) being a general crazy bitch lol. she doesn't talk to her entire family pretty much because they cant get along. she overreacts to everything thing.

so yea....pretty much over it. I don't answer the phone when she calls (her voice puts me on edge) I don't go over and see her. I just cant do it anymore. my husband does, and I'm fine with that...but he doesn't want to hear me rant about his mom even though he knows her attitude sucks. (hes said so several times...)

I really just needed to vent. my mom is no cakewalk either but a hell of a lot less intrusive and doesn't bother us.

UGH 1 month more of pregnancy to go!!!!